Showing posts with label living like Christ. Show all posts
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Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Beauty Pageants and Models

       At any given time, there are countless girls staring at their reflection, primping and priming for the off-chance they are accepted into a pageant or photoshoot. It truly is an off-chance. Considering how many girls in the United States are aspiring to be a famous model or a contestant in a pageant, the chances of being successful seem slimmer than the models themselves.
       These girls don't just aspire: They live for it. Every step they take, it is a strut for a runway. Every outfit they put on, they are modeling. Every pause in movement is a pose.
       Think of the money they spend to perfect themselves! They pay for designer clothes, which are ludicrously expensive (Who would pay two thousand dollars for a dress that will be worn once?); application fees for pageants; costs of photoshoots; and expenses for cosmetics, and - unfortunately - Botox, plastic surgery, and similar procedures (I'm not saying all models have plastic surgery, but it sure seems that way). They hire consultants (mostly women who tried to win pageants, failed, and now coach other girls how to "win") to improve their chances of doing well in contests.
       Not only are they investing money, they invest time. Hours and hours are spent practicing their walk, their poses, their facial expressions (their smizing, as Tyra calls it)... They wait for call-backs from auditions and agencies...
       It's a shame that so many girls invest so much time, money, and energy into this, only to find out they aren't accepted. What happens to the girls who don't make it into fame and fortune? Do they have a back-up plan? Unfortunately, a lot of girls are so confident they will succeed (or don't know of any other talent they might have), they don't consider an alternative.
       What do you dedicate your life to? How much time do you put into that? Is it a hobby, obsession, or passion? Where will it take you? Is it worth the risks it requires you to take?
       Know that God can be your greatest passion. He shouldn't be put on hold until Sunday. He needs to be something you live and breathe. Every step you take should be following in God's footsteps. Everything you do should be something He would do.
      It's interesting that the word model means to copy. After all, most models are copies of each other. Stereotypically speaking, models are white, blonde, and they act according to stereotypical model behavior (excessive dieting, et cetera). According to some people, good models are those that look like Barbies. Hopefully, everyone knows that Barbies set impossible standards for perfection.
       In that light, we should be like models. However, we imitate Christ, not people. We aim for beautiful souls, not beautiful bodies. God is ultimate perfection. We can only strive to be like Him, but never reach that same perfection (besides, if we were perfect, we wouldn't need God). God's perfection shows us our imperfections, all that we need to improve. No, we aren't saved by being good people, but we are to be like Christ. And how are we to be like Christ if we don't see our shortcomings, our need to change for the better? If more Christians start "modeling" God, more people might be able to see why He needs to be in their lives too.

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Mirrors

Genesis 1:27
"So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them."

Nehemiah 9:28-29
"But as soon as they had rest, they again did what was evil. So you left them to their enemies who ruled over them. When they cried out to you again, you heard from heaven. Because of your mercy, you saved them again and again [28]. You warned them to return to your teachings, but they were proud and did not obey your commands. If someone obeys your laws, he will live, but they sinned against your laws. They were stubborn, unwilling, and disobedient [29]."

      These two verses look like they have absolutely nothing in common, nor do they appear to have any relation to mirrors. However, I think I can prove otherwise.

      From the very beginning of our American lives, we are trained to look into mirrors. Many societies have no such device, nor do they have a need for mirrors. In America, we are a vain people. Over the course of our lives, we spend countless hours staring deeply into our reflection, trying to correct the imperfections, hide the flaws, and make our appearance better overall. It is extremely likely that girls spend more time in front of the mirror than guys, but we are all guilty of some level of vanity.
      But this obsession of looking into mirrors is not innate; little children have to learn how to use mirrors. At first, most children are confused by the person looking back at them. For all they know, it could be another person; it is impossible for a young child to recognize himself in a mirror. It takes a long process of sitting in front of a mirror, holding up a hand, and watching the reflection do the same. After a while, it starts to register in the brain that this reflection is you. From then on out, the person is constantly looking in the mirror, searching for imperfections and wishing to be better.
      Genesis 1:27 says God made us in His image. He made us to be a reflection of Him: when He looks into our world, He should be able to see Himself staring back. But He doesn't. It's very similar to Through the Looking Glass, where Alice stepped through her mirror and entered a world that is the complete opposite of the real world. God reached into our world by sending Jesus, and by doing this, Jesus entered a world that was the complete opposite of the world it reflects. We were made to be reflections of God and our actions should mimic His, similar to how the image in a mirror can do nothing without the movement of the thing it reflects.
      Our failure to reflect God is comparable to a broken mirror--it is a broken image of the beauty it reflects. God should be able to look at this world and be proud of what He sees: a world of love and mercy. However, He looks at it and can see all of its imperfections. Yes, He continues to love the world He created, despite the cracks in the image. But why should we take advantage of His never-ending love?
      Count up all the times you sinned--every wrong thought, every wrong word or action, that you did or will do--and you will start to see what a broken fragment of a mirror you are. Now try to count up all the times God has had mercy on you, all the times He loved you. It would be an impossible task. We continue to fail, but God's love never ends, never fails. Nehemiah 9:28-29 describes a cycle that the Israelites went through, and that every human goes through. We rebel and when the situation becomes sticky, we cry for God's help. God helps us, and we respond with more rebellion (and the cycle continues). Yet, despite our failures, God keeps loving us. He never gives up on us, He does not grow weary with us.
      What if we reflected God's love, His infinite and perfect love? Instead of being a shattered mirror, each person would reflect God's heart and live like Christ. The world would cease to exist as the backwards and broken image, but the true reflection of God, the way He intended us to be. God would be able to look at the world He created in His image and see clearly His reflection.